North Idaho Counseling Center

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Specializing in the treatment of trauma. Rooted in experience and compassion.

Nicole Nestor-Gray is a licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in Hayden, Idaho with a strong affinity for helping our first responder communities.

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Upcoming Clinician Events

FREE EMDR Study/Networking Group

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For ALL Trained EMDR Therapists

LOCATION:  13403 N Government Way - NEW
TIME:  Saturday 9:00-11:00am 

COST: Free
Come with your cases or questions.  We are here to support you!

​Dates:  
2/7/26 - ONLINE - SPECIAL GUEST: Dr. Curtis Rouanzoin PhD.

4/11/26 - In Person

7/11/26 - ONLINE - Guest

9/19/26 - In Person

12/5/26 - In Person (End of Year Celebration)

“When you begin to process your trauma, your nervous system settles, patterns shift, and you can begin to move forward with confidence.”

Services Offered:

  • EMDR Therapy

  • Facilitator, EMDR Study Groups

  • EMDR Consultation for Therapists

  • Founder, First Responder Clinician
    Support Team

  • Therapist - Marriage, Internal Family Systems, Individual, Trauma, Polyvagal, Cognitive Behavioral, Accelerated Resolution, Solution Focused

  • CISM - Local crisis debriefs for local law enforcement and fire departments

If you’re a first responder or military personnel, start here:

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First Responder Clinician Support Team of North Idaho (FRCST) is a team of vetted Therapists who are culturally and clinically competent to work with First Responders and Military Personnel.

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With the support of therapy, you can learn to trust your decisions, nurture healthier relationships, and respond to life’s challenges from a grounded, empowered place.